I joined my ex for a threesome with his new girlfriend and I have fallen for her

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend and I rekindled our relationship for one passionate night – but it included his new girlfriend too.

We were together for three years and had a tumultuous relationship. We’re both fiery and would have big fights but the “make-up sex” was always great.

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I joined my ex for a threesome with his new girlfriend and I have fallen for her

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We split up because although the physical side of our relationship was exciting, we wanted different things.

I went off to university to study art and he stayed in our home town working for his family’s property business. I’m 25 and he’s 27.

We stayed in touch over social media. I had a few flings but nothing serious.

Still, when I saw he’d met someone new, I had a little stab of hurt to the heart.

My group of friends and I had tickets to a big local festival and I knew he was likely to be there.

So I made sure I looked good. I wore my favorite playsuit and practically showered in glitter.

Sure enough, we bumped into each other and he was with his girlfriend.

I felt self-conscious especially as his girlfriend was permanently draped all over him.

But as he knew my friends we decided to get drinks together.

As the afternoon wore on, I found myself dancing with his new girlfriend and having fun.

At the end of the night my friends went back to our tent but this girl asked me back to theirs for “some fun”.

As soon as we got there we all stripped off and started exploring each other.

It was amazing to have sex with him again and a bonus to have her involved.

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I left the next morning feeling like I’d spent time with someone really special — and I wasn’t thinking about my ex-boyfriend.

My ex has got back in touch with me asking if I fancy a rematch, and I would — but not with him involved. Should I get in touch with her?

DEIDRE SAYS: You enjoyed a fun night with this woman and your ex-boyfriend which has completely taken you by surprise.

You are full of admiration for her but remember you don’t really know her – you spent one drunken night together and she is not available.

Save yourself a lot more confusion and upset by avoiding any further threesomes with your ex and his new girlfriend.

While threesomes can work for some – especially when clear boundaries are agreed – as you are experiencing, problems do emerge when emotions become involved.

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